歡迎參觀游雅婷的歷程檔案

Father & son Dear son: The day that you see me old and already not, have patience and try to understand me. If I get dirty when eating….if I can not dress…have patience, Remember the hours I spent teaching it to you. If, when I speak to you, I repeat the same thing thousand and one times…do not interrupt me…listen to me. When you were small, I had to read to you thousand and one times the same story until you get to sleep. When I do not want to have a shower, neither shame me nor scold me… Remember when I had to chase you with thousand excuses I invented, in order that you want to bath… When you see my ignorance on new technologies…give me the necessary time and not look at me your mocking smile… I taught you how to do many things…to eat good, to dress well …to confront life… When at some moment I loss the memory or the thread of our conversation…let me have the necessary time to remember…and if I cannot do it, do not become nervous…as the most important thing is not my conversation but surely to be with you and to have you listening to me... If ever I do not want to eat, do not force me. I know well when I need to and when not. When my tired legs do not allow me walk…give me your hand …the same way I did when you gave your first steps. And when some day I say to you that I do not want to live any more…that I want to die…do not get angry …some day you will understand… Try to understand that my age is not lived but survived. Some day you will discover that, despite my mistakes, I always Wanted the lost thing for you and that I tried to prepare the way for you. You must not feel sad, angry or impotent for seeing me near you. You must be next to me, try to understand me and be help me as I did It when you started living, Help me to walk…help me to end my way with love and patience. I will pay you by a smile and by the immense love I have had always for you. I love you son… your father 父親和兒子 親愛的兒子： 哪天無論你是否已看到我日漸老去，要有耐心，並試著了解我。 如果我吃的髒兮兮......如果我不會穿衣服......有耐心，記住我曾經教你這些事的時光。 如果，當我對你說，我重複同樣的事情上千遍，希望你別打斷我，可以耐心聽我說完。 當你小的時候，我讀給你上千次同樣的故事，直到你靜靜睡著。 當我不想洗澡，不要羞辱我也別罵我...... 還記得，當時我編了上千種理由說服你只為了想讓你去洗澡… 當你看到我對新技術的無知，給我一點時間，不要掛著嘲笑的表情看著我...... 我教你如何做很多事情...吃的好，穿得好面對生活...... 當我在某個時刻忘記我們的談話內容…讓我有足夠的時間想起來，還有如果我仍然想不起來，也不要太緊張......最重要的不是我們的對話，但一定要和你在一起而且能傾聽...... 如果我突然不想吃，不要強迫我。我清楚地知道，我什麼時候需要和什麼時候不需要。 當我疲憊的雙腿不讓我走......給我你的手 ......我也是用同樣的方式讓你跨出自己的第一步。 當有一天我對你說，我不想再活下去......我想死......不要生氣....總有一天你會明白... 請你了解我已是風燭殘年。 有一天你會發現，即使我有許多過錯，我總是想得到你失去的東西，我試著預備一條路給你。 看到我靠近你，你千萬不要覺得感傷，生氣或無奈。 你要在我身旁，試著了解我和幫助我，如我前面所說的。 當你開始生活，幫助我走......用愛和耐心陪伴我到最後。我會向你微笑和給你無私的愛，如同我總是這樣對待你。 兒子，我愛你...... 你的父親