老人護理學
Father & son
Dear son:
The day that you see me old and already not, have patience and
try to understand me.
If I get dirty when eating….if I can not dress…have patience,
Remember the hours I spent teaching it to you.
If, when I speak to you, I repeat the same thing thousand and
one times…do not interrupt me…listen to me.
When you were small, I had to read to you thousand and
one times the same story until you get to sleep.
When I do not want to have a shower, neither shame me nor
scold me…
Remember when I had to chase you with thousand excuses I
invented, in order that you want to bath…
When you see my ignorance on new technologies…give me the
necessary time and not look at me your mocking smile…
I taught you how to do many things…to eat good, to dress well
…to confront life…
When at some moment I loss the memory or the thread of our
conversation…let me have the necessary time to remember…and if
I cannot do it, do not become nervous…as the most important thing
is not my conversation but surely to be with you and to have you
listening to me...
If everI do not want to eat, do not force me. I know well when
I need to and when not.
When my tired legs do not allow me walk…give me your hand
…the same way I did when you gave your first steps.
And when some day I say to you that I do not want to live any
more…that I want to die…do not get angry …some day you will
understand…
Try to understand that my age is not lived but survived.
Some day you will discover that, despite my mistakes, I always
Wanted the lost thing for you and that I tried to prepare the way
for you.
You must not feel sad, angry or impotent for seeing me near you.
You must be next to me, try to understand me and be help me as I did
It when you started living,
Help me to walk…help me to end my way with love and patience.
I will pay you by a smile and by the immense love I have had always
for you.
I love you son…
your father
父與子
親愛的兒子：
哪天你看到我日漸老去及已經無法有耐心的試著了解我。
如果我吃的髒兮兮......如果我不會穿衣服......有耐心，記住我那時花時間教你的。
如果，當我對你說重複同樣的事情千次...不要打斷我，聽我說。
當你小的時候，我說千次同樣的故事給你聽，直到你入睡。
當我不想洗澡，不要羞辱我也別罵我......
記得我不得不追著你，用了千種理由，讓你去洗澡...
當你看到我對新技術的無知，給我一點時間，不要用嘲弄的笑看著我......
我教你如何做很多事情...吃飯吃的好，穿衣服穿的好，來面對生活......
當在某一時刻，我遺失了記憶或不知所云，讓我有必要的時間來記住... 並且如果
我不能做到這一點，不要緊張...... 最重要的事情不是我的談話重要的是我與你同在，有你聽我說...
如果說我不想吃，不要勉強我。我清楚地知道，當我需要時和什麼時候不需要。
當我疲憊的雙腿無法我行走......給我你的手......當你學會的第一步時我做了同樣的方式。
當有一天我對你說，我再也不想活著...我想死......不要生氣......總有一天你會明白...
試著了解我的年齡已是風燭殘年，倖免於難。
有一天你會發現，即使我有許多過錯，我總是想為你失去東西和我試著為你準備道路
看見我在你旁邊，你千萬不要覺得感傷，生氣或無奈。
你要在我身旁，試著了解我，幫助我，像我在你開始生活時做的一樣，幫助我走......用愛和耐心幫我在結束生命的道路上。
我會始終給你微笑和無邊無際的愛。
我愛你的兒子......
你的父親
Dear son:
The day that you see me old and already not, have patience and
try to understand me.
If I get dirty when eating….if I can not dress…have patience,
Remember the hours I spent teaching it to you.
If, when I speak to you, I repeat the same thing thousand and
one times…do not interrupt me…listen to me.
When you were small, I had to read to you thousand and
one times the same story until you get to sleep.
When I do not want to have a shower, neither shame me nor
scold me…
Remember when I had to chase you with thousand excuses I
invented, in order that you want to bath…
When you see my ignorance on new technologies…give me the
necessary time and not look at me your mocking smile…
I taught you how to do many things…to eat good, to dress well
…to confront life…
When at some moment I loss the memory or the thread of our
conversation…let me have the necessary time to remember…and if
I cannot do it, do not become nervous…as the most important thing
is not my conversation but surely to be with you and to have you
listening to me...
If everI do not want to eat, do not force me. I know well when
I need to and when not.
When my tired legs do not allow me walk…give me your hand
…the same way I did when you gave your first steps.
And when some day I say to you that I do not want to live any
more…that I want to die…do not get angry …some day you will
understand…
Try to understand that my age is not lived but survived.
Some day you will discover that, despite my mistakes, I always
Wanted the lost thing for you and that I tried to prepare the way
for you.
You must not feel sad, angry or impotent for seeing me near you.
You must be next to me, try to understand me and be help me as I did
It when you started living,
Help me to walk…help me to end my way with love and patience.
I will pay you by a smile and by the immense love I have had always
for you.
I love you son…
your father
父與子
親愛的兒子：
哪天你看到我日漸老去及已經無法有耐心的試著了解我。
如果我吃的髒兮兮......如果我不會穿衣服......有耐心，記住我那時花時間教你的。
如果，當我對你說重複同樣的事情千次...不要打斷我，聽我說。
當你小的時候，我說千次同樣的故事給你聽，直到你入睡。
當我不想洗澡，不要羞辱我也別罵我......
記得我不得不追著你，用了千種理由，讓你去洗澡...
當你看到我對新技術的無知，給我一點時間，不要用嘲弄的笑看著我......
我教你如何做很多事情...吃飯吃的好，穿衣服穿的好，來面對生活......
當在某一時刻，我遺失了記憶或不知所云，讓我有必要的時間來記住... 並且如果
我不能做到這一點，不要緊張...... 最重要的事情不是我的談話重要的是我與你同在，有你聽我說...
如果說我不想吃，不要勉強我。我清楚地知道，當我需要時和什麼時候不需要。
當我疲憊的雙腿無法我行走......給我你的手......當你學會的第一步時我做了同樣的方式。
當有一天我對你說，我再也不想活著...我想死......不要生氣......總有一天你會明白...
試著了解我的年齡已是風燭殘年，倖免於難。
有一天你會發現，即使我有許多過錯，我總是想為你失去東西和我試著為你準備道路
看見我在你旁邊，你千萬不要覺得感傷，生氣或無奈。
你要在我身旁，試著了解我，幫助我，像我在你開始生活時做的一樣，幫助我走......用愛和耐心幫我在結束生命的道路上。
我會始終給你微笑和無邊無際的愛。
我愛你的兒子......
你的父親
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