老護作業，文章：父與子
Father & son
Dear son:
The day that you see me old and already not, have patience and try to understand me.
If I get dirty when eating….if I can not dress…have patience,
Remember the hours I spent teaching it to you.
If, when I speak to you, I repeat the same thing thousand and
one times…do not interrupt me…listen to me.
When you were small, I had to read to you thousand and
one times the same story until you get to sleep.
When I do not want to have a shower, neither shame me nor
scold me…
Remember when I had to chase you with thousand excuses I invented, in order that you want to bath…
When you see my ignorance on new technologies…give me the necessary time and not look at me your mocking smile…
I taught you how to do many things…to eat good, to dress well
…to confront life…
When at some moment I loss the memory or the thread of our conversation…let me have the necessary time to remember…and if
I cannot do it, do not become nervous…as the most important thing is not my conversation but surely to be with you and to have you listening to me...
If everI do not want to eat, do not force me. I know well when
I need to and when not.
When my tired legs do not allow me walk…give me your hand
…the same way I did when you gave your first steps.
And when some day I say to you that I do not want to live any more…that I want to die…do not get angry …some day you will understand…
Try to understand that my age is not lived but survived.
Some day you will discover that, despite my mistakes, I always
Wanted the lost thing for you and that I tried to prepare the way for you.
You must not feel sad, angry or impotent for seeing me near you.
You must be next to me, try to understand me and be help me as I did It when you started living, Help me to walk…help me to end my way with love and patience.
I will pay you by a smile and by the immense love I have had always for you. I love you son…
your father
父親與兒子
親愛的兒子：
哪天你看到我已經日漸老去，要有耐心，並試著了解我。
如果我吃的髒兮兮......如果我不會穿衣服......要有耐心，
記住我曾經花時間教你這些。
如果，當我對你說重複同樣的事情千百遍，
請你不要打斷我繼續聽我說。
當你小的時候，我曾讀同樣的故事千百遍，直到你靜靜睡著。
當我不想洗澡，也不要羞辱我，談話中讓我有時間去記住它的必要性要記住......如果我不能做到這一點，不要慌張......重要的不是我的談話內容，而是你在聽我說...
如果說我不想吃東西時，不要勉強我。我清楚地知道，
我什麼時候需要或不需要。
當我拖著疲憊的雙腿走不動時......請你牽著我的手
......我曾經用了同樣的方式，協助你踏出你的第一個步。
當有一天我對你說，我不想再活下去......我想死......請你不要生氣....總有一天你會明白...
試著了解我已是風燭殘年。
有一天你會發現，即使我有許多過錯，我總是為你失去某些東西，因為我試圖為你計畫未來。
看到我靠近你，你千萬不要覺得感傷，生氣或無奈。
你要緊靠著我，試著了解我，幫助我，就像當你開始生活
我幫助你一樣，用愛和耐心，的方式結束。
我曾始終對你付出用我的微笑和無邊無際的愛。
我愛你我的兒子......愛你的父親
Dear son:
The day that you see me old and already not, have patience and try to understand me.
If I get dirty when eating….if I can not dress…have patience,
Remember the hours I spent teaching it to you.
If, when I speak to you, I repeat the same thing thousand and
one times…do not interrupt me…listen to me.
When you were small, I had to read to you thousand and
one times the same story until you get to sleep.
When I do not want to have a shower, neither shame me nor
scold me…
Remember when I had to chase you with thousand excuses I invented, in order that you want to bath…
When you see my ignorance on new technologies…give me the necessary time and not look at me your mocking smile…
I taught you how to do many things…to eat good, to dress well
…to confront life…
When at some moment I loss the memory or the thread of our conversation…let me have the necessary time to remember…and if
I cannot do it, do not become nervous…as the most important thing is not my conversation but surely to be with you and to have you listening to me...
If everI do not want to eat, do not force me. I know well when
I need to and when not.
When my tired legs do not allow me walk…give me your hand
…the same way I did when you gave your first steps.
And when some day I say to you that I do not want to live any more…that I want to die…do not get angry …some day you will understand…
Try to understand that my age is not lived but survived.
Some day you will discover that, despite my mistakes, I always
Wanted the lost thing for you and that I tried to prepare the way for you.
You must not feel sad, angry or impotent for seeing me near you.
You must be next to me, try to understand me and be help me as I did It when you started living, Help me to walk…help me to end my way with love and patience.
I will pay you by a smile and by the immense love I have had always for you. I love you son…
your father
父親與兒子
親愛的兒子：
哪天你看到我已經日漸老去，要有耐心，並試著了解我。
如果我吃的髒兮兮......如果我不會穿衣服......要有耐心，
記住我曾經花時間教你這些。
如果，當我對你說重複同樣的事情千百遍，
請你不要打斷我繼續聽我說。
當你小的時候，我曾讀同樣的故事千百遍，直到你靜靜睡著。
當我不想洗澡，也不要羞辱我，談話中讓我有時間去記住它的必要性要記住......如果我不能做到這一點，不要慌張......重要的不是我的談話內容，而是你在聽我說...
如果說我不想吃東西時，不要勉強我。我清楚地知道，
我什麼時候需要或不需要。
當我拖著疲憊的雙腿走不動時......請你牽著我的手
......我曾經用了同樣的方式，協助你踏出你的第一個步。
當有一天我對你說，我不想再活下去......我想死......請你不要生氣....總有一天你會明白...
試著了解我已是風燭殘年。
有一天你會發現，即使我有許多過錯，我總是為你失去某些東西，因為我試圖為你計畫未來。
看到我靠近你，你千萬不要覺得感傷，生氣或無奈。
你要緊靠著我，試著了解我，幫助我，就像當你開始生活
我幫助你一樣，用愛和耐心，的方式結束。
我曾始終對你付出用我的微笑和無邊無際的愛。
我愛你我的兒子......愛你的父親
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