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父與子 7920 2013-06-08 21:58:46
Dear son: 親愛的兒子
The day that you see me old and already not, have patience and try to understand me. 當有一天你看到我已年紀老邁，而我已不再有耐性的時候，請你嘗試去了解我。
If I get dirty when eating….if I can not dress…have patience,
Remember the hours I spent teaching it to you. 如果我吃飯吃得亂七八糟，如果我沒有能力自己穿衣服的話，請你要有耐心。回憶過去我教導你的時光。
If, when I speak to you, I repeat the same thing thousand and one times…do not interrupt me…listen to me. 在我跟你說話時，如果我把同一件事情重覆了一千零一次的時候，不要打斷我的話，要聽下去。
When you were small, I had to read to you thousand and one times the same story until you get to sleep. 當你還很小的時候，我要把同一個故事重覆一千零一次，直到你睡著了。
When I do not want to have a shower, neither shame me nor scold me…當我不想要洗澡，不要侮辱我或罵我。
Remember when I had to chase you with thousand excuses I invented, in order that you want to bath…記得我要想盡一千個藉口來哄你，才讓你想要洗澡。
When you see my ignorance on new technologies…give me the necessary time and not look at me your mocking smile…當你看到我對新科技的無知時，給我所需的時間，不要嘲笑我。
I taught you how to do many things…to eat good, to dress well
…to confront life…我過去教你做很多的事情，吃得好，穿得好，及面對生命。
When at some moment I loss the memory or the thread of our conversation…let me have the necessary time to remember…and if
I cannot do it, do not become nervous…as the most important thing is not my conversation but surely to be with you and to have you listening to me... 當我有時候忘記一些回憶或我們對話中的條理，給我所需的時間去想起來... 若我還不能想起來，不要急躁，因為最重要不是我們的對話，是我們相處的時刻以及你的聆聽。
If everI do not want to eat, do not force me. I know well when
I need to and when not. 如果我不想吃，不要逼我，我深知我什麼時候要，什麼時候不。
When my tired legs do not allow me walk…give me your hand
…the same way I did when you gave your first steps. 當疲乏的雙腳不容許我走路時，伸手幫助我，就如你剛學步時我幫你一樣。
And when some day I say to you that I do not want to live any more…that I want to die…do not get angry …some day you will understand…還有當有一天我告訴你我不想活了... 我想要死... 不要生氣，有一天你會明白...
Try to understand that my age is not lived but survived. 嘗試了解我這把年紀已不是生活而是倖存。
Some day you will discover that, despite my mistakes, I always
Wanted the lost thing for you and that I tried to prepare the way
for you. 有一天你會發現雖然我有過錯，我仍希望把最好的給你，我也嘗試為此給你準備道路。
You must not feel sad, angry or impotent for seeing me near you.
You must be next to me, try to understand me and be help me as I did
It when you started living, 你不可以因看到我親近你而感到悲傷，憤怒或不耐煩。你一定要在我旁邊，嘗試了解我，幫助我，就如你剛開始生活時我幫助你一樣。
Help me to walk…help me to end my way with love and patience.
I will pay you by a smile and by the immense love I have had always
for you. 幫我走路...幫我在臨終時有愛與忍耐。我會以微笑及一直對你無比的愛來回報你。
I love you son…我愛你，兒子...
your father
你的父親
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父與子 7899 2013-06-08 21:56:59
Dear son: 親愛的兒子
The day that you see me old and already not, have patience and try to understand me. 當有一天你看到我已年紀老邁，而我已不再有耐性的時候，請你嘗試去了解我。
If I get dirty when eating….if I can not dress…have patience,
Remember the hours I spent teaching it to you. 如果我吃飯吃得亂七八糟，如果我沒有能力自己穿衣服的話，請你要有耐心。回憶過去我教導你的時光。
If, when I speak to you, I repeat the same thing thousand and one times…do not interrupt me…listen to me. 在我跟你說話時，如果我把同一件事情重覆了一千零一次的時候，不要打斷我的話，要聽下去。
When you were small, I had to read to you thousand and one times the same story until you get to sleep. 當你還很小的時候，我要把同一個故事重覆一千零一次，直到你睡著了。
When I do not want to have a shower, neither shame me nor scold me…當我不想要洗澡，不要侮辱我或罵我。
Remember when I had to chase you with thousand excuses I invented, in order that you want to bath…記得我要想盡一千個藉口來哄你，才讓你想要洗澡。
When you see my ignorance on new technologies…give me the necessary time and not look at me your mocking smile…當你看到我對新科技的無知時，給我所需的時間，不要嘲笑我。
I taught you how to do many things…to eat good, to dress well
…to confront life…我過去教你做很多的事情，吃得好，穿得好，及面對生命。
When at some moment I loss the memory or the thread of our conversation…let me have the necessary time to remember…and if
I cannot do it, do not become nervous…as the most important thing is not my conversation but surely to be with you and to have you listening to me... 當我有時候忘記一些回憶或我們對話中的條理，給我所需的時間去想起來... 若我還不能想起來，不要急躁，因為最重要不是我們的對話，是我們相處的時刻以及你的聆聽。
If everI do not want to eat, do not force me. I know well when
I need to and when not. 如果我不想吃，不要逼我，我深知我什麼時候要，什麼時候不。
When my tired legs do not allow me walk…give me your hand
…the same way I did when you gave your first steps. 當疲乏的雙腳不容許我走路時，伸手幫助我，就如你剛學步時我幫你一樣。
And when some day I say to you that I do not want to live any more…that I want to die…do not get angry …some day you will understand…還有當有一天我告訴你我不想活了... 我想要死... 不要生氣，有一天你會明白...
Try to understand that my age is not lived but survived. 嘗試了解我這把年紀已不是生活而是倖存。
Some day you will discover that, despite my mistakes, I always
Wanted the lost thing for you and that I tried to prepare the way
for you. 有一天你會發現雖然我有過錯，我仍希望把最好的給你，我也嘗試為此給你準備道路。
You must not feel sad, angry or impotent for seeing me near you.
You must be next to me, try to understand me and be help me as I did
It when you started living, 你不可以因看到我親近你而感到悲傷，憤怒或不耐煩。你一定要在我旁邊，嘗試了解我，幫助我，就如你剛開始生活時我幫助你一樣。
Help me to walk…help me to end my way with love and patience.
I will pay you by a smile and by the immense love I have had always
for you. 幫我走路...幫我在臨終時有愛與忍耐。我會以微笑及一直對你無比的愛來回報你。
I love you son…我愛你，兒子...
your father
你的父親
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父與子 7899 2013-06-08 21:56:15
Dear son: 親愛的兒子
The day that you see me old and already not, have patience and try to understand me. 當有一天你看到我已年紀老邁，而我已不再有耐性的時候，請你嘗試去了解我。
If I get dirty when eating….if I can not dress…have patience,
Remember the hours I spent teaching it to you. 如果我吃飯吃得亂七八糟，如果我沒有能力自己穿衣服的話，請你要有耐心。回憶過去我教導你的時光。
If, when I speak to you, I repeat the same thing thousand and one times…do not interrupt me…listen to me. 在我跟你說話時，如果我把同一件事情重覆了一千零一次的時候，不要打斷我的話，要聽下去。
When you were small, I had to read to you thousand and one times the same story until you get to sleep. 當你還很小的時候，我要把同一個故事重覆一千零一次，直到你睡著了。
When I do not want to have a shower, neither shame me nor scold me…當我不想要洗澡，不要侮辱我或罵我。
Remember when I had to chase you with thousand excuses I invented, in order that you want to bath…記得我要想盡一千個藉口來哄你，才讓你想要洗澡。
When you see my ignorance on new technologies…give me the necessary time and not look at me your mocking smile…當你看到我對新科技的無知時，給我所需的時間，不要嘲笑我。
I taught you how to do many things…to eat good, to dress well
…to confront life…我過去教你做很多的事情，吃得好，穿得好，及面對生命。
When at some moment I loss the memory or the thread of our conversation…let me have the necessary time to remember…and if
I cannot do it, do not become nervous…as the most important thing is not my conversation but surely to be with you and to have you listening to me... 當我有時候忘記一些回憶或我們對話中的條理，給我所需的時間去想起來... 若我還不能想起來，不要急躁，因為最重要不是我們的對話，是我們相處的時刻以及你的聆聽。
If everI do not want to eat, do not force me. I know well when
I need to and when not. 如果我不想吃，不要逼我，我深知我什麼時候要，什麼時候不。
When my tired legs do not allow me walk…give me your hand
…the same way I did when you gave your first steps. 當疲乏的雙腳不容許我走路時，伸手幫助我，就如你剛學步時我幫你一樣。
And when some day I say to you that I do not want to live any more…that I want to die…do not get angry …some day you will understand…還有當有一天我告訴你我不想活了... 我想要死... 不要生氣，有一天你會明白...
Try to understand that my age is not lived but survived. 嘗試了解我這把年紀已不是生活而是倖存。
Some day you will discover that, despite my mistakes, I always
Wanted the lost thing for you and that I tried to prepare the way
for you. 有一天你會發現雖然我有過錯，我仍希望把最好的給你，我也嘗試為此給你準備道路。
You must not feel sad, angry or impotent for seeing me near you.
You must be next to me, try to understand me and be help me as I did
It when you started living, 你不可以因看到我親近你而感到悲傷，憤怒或不耐煩。你一定要在我旁邊，嘗試了解我，幫助我，就如你剛開始生活時我幫助你一樣。
Help me to walk…help me to end my way with love and patience.
I will pay you by a smile and by the immense love I have had always
for you. 幫我走路...幫我在臨終時有愛與忍耐。我會以微笑及一直對你無比的愛來回報你。
I love you son…我愛你，兒子...
your father
你的父親
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老人護理學個人作業(英翻中) 7753 2013-06-08 21:23:25
Father & son
Dear son:
The day that you see me old and already not, have patience and
try to understand me.
If I get dirty when eating….if I can not dress…have patience,
Remember the hours I spent teaching it to you.
If, when I speak to you, I repeat the same thing thousand and
one times…do not interrupt me…listen to me.
When you were small, I had to read to you thousand and
one times the same story until you get to sleep.
When I do not want to have a shower, neither shame me nor
scold me…
Remember when I had to chase you with thousand excuses I
invented, in order that you want to bath…
When you see my ignorance on new technologies…give me the
necessary time and not look at me your mocking smile…
I taught you how to do many things…to eat good, to dress well
…to confront life…
When at some moment I loss the memory or the thread of our
conversation…let me have the necessary time to remember…and if
I cannot do it, do not become nervous…as the most important thing
is not my conversation but surely to be with you and to have you
listening to me...
If everI do not want to eat, do not force me. I know well when
I need to and when not.
When my tired legs do not allow me walk…give me your hand
…the same way I did when you gave your first steps.
And when some day I say to you that I do not want to live any
more…that I want to die…do not get angry …some day you will
understand…
Try to understand that my age is not lived but survived.
Some day you will discover that, despite my mistakes, I always
Wanted the lost thing for you and that I tried to prepare the way
for you.
You must not feel sad, angry or impotent for seeing me near you.
You must be next to me, try to understand me and be help me as I did
It when you started living,
Help me to walk…help me to end my way with love and patience.
I will pay you by a smile and by the immense love I have had always
for you.
I love you son…
your father
父親與兒子
親愛的兒子：
哪天你看到我已日漸老去，已經沒有了耐性子試著理解我。
如果我吃的臟兮兮......如果我不會穿衣服......有耐心，記住我花時間教給你。
如果當我對你說了重複同樣的事情千百次...不要打斷我，聽我說。
當你小的時候，我讀給你千百次同樣的故事，直到你靜靜睡著。
當我不想洗澡，不要羞辱我也不要責罵我......
還記得當我有多少理由，你讓我追你為了要洗澡...
當你看到我對新科技的無知，能給我一點時間，不要掛著嘲弄的微笑看著我......
我教你如何做很多事情...如何好好的吃，如何好好穿著...... 如何面對你的生活......當在某些時刻，我損失的記憶或線程，我們的談話......讓我具備必要的時候要記得......如果我不能這樣做，請不要緊張...作為最重要的事情不是我的談話，但肯定與你同在，有你在聽我...
如果說我不想吃，不要勉強我。我知道，當我需要時。
當我疲憊的雙腿不能走了，給我你的手......我做了同樣的方式，當你給你的第一個步驟。
當有一天我對你說，我不想再活下去......我想死......不要生氣....總有一天你會明白...
試著了解我已是風燭殘年但倖免於難。有一天你會發現，即使我有許多過錯，我總是想失去的東西給你，我試圖為您準備的方式。
看到我靠近你，你千萬不要覺得感傷，生氣或無奈。
你要緊挨著我，試著了解我，幫助我，像我一樣，當你開始的生活，
有助於我走......用愛和耐心幫我結束我的路。
我會付出你用微笑和無邊無際的愛，我不得不總是為你。
我愛你兒子
你的父親
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父與子 7889 2013-06-08 20:27:42
親愛的兒子
如果有天你看見我老了(實際上我也已經不再"年輕"),請對我有耐心和試著了解我
如果我吃東西掉滿地或弄得髒兮兮 或者我無法自己穿衣... 請你有耐心
並想想當初我為了教你花了多少時間
如果當我跟你說話, 我再一次重覆說過千次以上的事請你不中斷我 繼續聽我說完
想想當你還小, 我必須一次又一次說你聽過千次以上的故事哄你睡覺
當我不能自己洗澡(淋浴), 不要羞辱我也別罵我
想想當初為了要讓你洗澡 我必須每天追著你跑還得想些奇怪的理由
當你看到我的無知 請你給我時間學習並且別用那種嘲笑的眼光看我
想想當初我教會你如何做事 吃東西 穿衣服 甚至於面對人生
當有時我想不起來該說或我們正在說什麼 請給我有時間想 甚至如果我想不起來 也請你不要緊張 因為最重要的事不是我的交談的內容而是跟"你"說話 你在聽我說話
如果我不想吃東西 不要逼我
我清楚的知道什麼時候我必須吃 什麼時候不必吃
當我疲累的腿不再幫我行動
請對我伸出援手
就像當初你學走路時我幫你的樣子
如果哪天我對你說我不想活了 我想死 請你別生氣 總有一天你會了解的
請你試著瞭解 到我這樣的年齡 並不是為了生活 而是為了存活
有一天你會發現 儘管我的做錯了 我總想要給你最好的 盡量為你鋪陳往後的路
當你看見我在你附近 你不必感到哀傷 惱怒或不耐煩 您必須陪著我 試著了解我和幫助我 如同我幫助你開始你的人生一樣
幫助我走這段路
請你用愛和耐心陪我走人生的最後一段路
我會用給你我最真心的笑容 裡面包含我一直以來對你無限的愛
孩子 我愛你
父親
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